First, a message to you guys in the fandom or who have left the fandom because of drama:
Why? Why would you leave just because of arguments that have already been resolved? There's no point, and honestly, this probably happens in EVERY ACTIVE FANDOM. So if you think you can escape drama just by leaving the Xiaolin fandom for another one, you're wrong. I'm sorry, but leaving because of someone else's problem, even of one of them is your friend- or if you caused drama between friends(like the idiot typing this)- seems very childish.
NOTE: I'm just speaking my thoughts, I'm not trying to offend any one. I don't want anyone to leave a place they love just because of other people not being able to get along...
Now for the ranting about drama in my life. Please, if you don't care, just ignore this:
Ok, I guess I forgot to give you guys an update on what's been happening.
Well, ONE of the problems was resolved. My friend that's going out with the jerk and I agreed that she could only give him two more chances before she had to break up with him.
My friend who was having mixed feelings about his gf told her that he was and- not really breaking up with her, in his opinion- said that they needed to take a break. This problem seemed to be solved, but I was told today by him that he was going to give her a diamond necklace that was very important to him, and that he'd told his dad that he wanted to marry (not telling her name) when they were a bit older. So I saw that she was in a bad mood today and when I got a chance to talk to her, I told her that the guy had a really special gift for her. Then I told her what else he said, excluding what the gift was. She said, like she was in shock, that it was like a fairytale. She, for a while, looked really happy. But when my other friends and I watched her, she started looking sad. Anyone wanna guess why? Yup, the same day that the guy had 'broken up' with her, another guy asked her out. So now she has a new boyfriend when she never really stopped going out with the other guy. So my other friends want me to tell the guy, but she says that she wants to tell him herself. Big problem: She'll wind up breaking his heart, and he told me that every time he went out with a girl younger than him, his heart was broken. EVERY time.
So, what should I do? I can't abandon my friends, but I also can't betray their trust...